Whatever you'd like! It's not the most formal of weddings so don't feel you have to wear a full suit or a posh hat ... but if that's what floats your boat don't let us stop you! However, one thing to bear in mind. We're in a garden, in Devon, in June. While we've got fingers and toes crossed for good weather it's probably best to bring layers and think carefully about any stiletto shoes.

It should be relatively easy to organise a taxi to us - Tavistock has a taxi rank and the local hotels should be able to sort you out. We’re organising a taxi to help get people home at the end of the evening (although there’s only one in Chillaton, so it could be a little wait). Just let us know on the RSVP if you'd like to be on the list. Alternatively, if you’re driving yourself and need parking let us know on your RSVP too as spaces are limited.

All children are welcome, and Ruth will of course be attending! There will be lots of games, space to run around, and we're organising some childcare support for later in the afternoon and evening. If this would be of interest just let us know on the RSVP with the numbers and ages of children.

Mobile reception around Parlick House is EXTREMELY PATCHY. Don't say we didn't warn you!